Good Things Come to Those Who Act
Life has a funny way of throwing curveballs when you least expect it. When my normal life took an unexpected turn, I found myself at a crossroads, armed with abundant energy and a burning desire to rebuild my life. Deep down, I knew that good things come to those who take action.
For many, the conventional narrative dictates that one's focus should shift to family by a certain point in life. Women are taking the bulk of the societal pressure. I've opted for a different path. Despite the years since my undergraduate degree and being a mother, I applied for an MSc in Environmental Change and Management at the University of Oxford. Though I didn't believe in the possibility of being admitted, I was still determined to try. I was rewarded – an offer from my dream university materialised.
Xenia with WHT scholars on Matriculation Day
However, at this very moment, my dark side awoke: could I, a mature student and a mother, overburdened with financial uncertainty, embark on such an ambitious academic journey? Securing funding as a Russian citizen proved to be a formidable challenge – I turned every stone, but nothing seemed to work. In the face of uncertainty, unexpected support emerged from the Weidenfeld-Hoffmann Trust, becoming a beacon of hope. While financial support serves as a crucial lifeline, I initially underestimated the depth of what the Weidenfeld-Hoffmann Trust represents. It turned out to be a familial bond that has become my support system in the hallowed halls of Oxford.
At the end of the Michaelmas term, I reflect on the hurdles overcome, the lessons learned, and the profound gratitude for the unfolding opportunities. Oxford has been not only a place of academic growth but also a transformative experience that goes beyond the lectures. I have to admit that studying in a globally renowned institution while being a mother is undeniably challenging. Constantly juggling academic rigour and familial responsibilities requires resilience, rigorous time management, and, sometimes, a lack of sleep.
Xenia’s son with WHT scholars
However, the WHT family – alumni, current cohort, every person at WHT, and many others responsible for funding the WHT initiative – make the load bearable. Their unwavering support is a testament to the belief that good things come not only to those who act but to those who surround themselves with an empowering community. WHT nurtures us, providing access to the opportunities that are hard to get by in everyday life. Meeting experienced professionals and mentors that nourish our entrepreneurial skills is priceless. Meanwhile, Moral Philosophy discussions stimulate us to think over problems from various angles, and long after classes, our cohort spends endless hours cementing our ethical beliefs to guide us further in life. Not to mention that whenever you are overwhelmed, stressed, or just homesick, WHT scholars are always there for you.
With each challenge faced head-on, I am reminded that pursuing knowledge and positive change is not a solitary endeavour but a collective journey. Good things do come to those who act, but they shine brighter when surrounded by a supportive community, and for that, I am profoundly grateful.
